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Sworn Virgins, an Albanian Social Construct: Perspectives from Uruci and Alika

November 6, 2013 by dgreca

By: Ermira Babamusta/

 In the following interview director Roland Uruci and writer Blerta Alikaj talk about this practice “Sworn Virgins – Burrneshat” that has been an Albanian tradition since 1400s and stems from the Albanian culture. For centuries sworn virgins were viewed as respected figures, equally dignified as men. Director Uruci features this topic in his movie “The Superintendent” that tells the story of Shota who “makes the ultimate sacrifice and reveals the most precious secret to a mere stranger”.

In your movie “The superintendent” you bring up a topic that may be unheard of in the western world or not as popular “burrneshat” (sworn virgins). What interested you about this topic and why did you choose it for your movie/script?

Roland Uruçi: This has always been an interesting topic for me especially since it is a very unique phenomenon within the Balkans, especially northern Albania.

Blerta Alikaj: I started writing and entertain my friends with a horror story for Halloween, but it went in a different direction. I wanted the readers to think the story was going one way, then another, and be caught off guard. I also thought it would be interesting to show what a sworn virgin does when she comes face to face with the realization that she is in a different country, where her sacrifice is not necessary, understood or appreciated.

Tells us a little bit more about the origins of Burrneshat (Sworn Virgins)

Roland Uruçi: To me this choice has more of a social weight than the choice of sexual orientation.  It is living a life or the perception of a specific life as a gender.  It is accepted by others and once it is out there it is simply there.

How do you make the distinction between sworn virgins and sexual orientation? What are some of the principles that define both terms?

Roland Uruçi: Sexual orientation does not require a gender shift.  You can remain within your gender. With a Burrnesh there is a gender shift.  It has to be a shift for it to hold.  It is an oath to never look back to what you were.

Blerta Alikaj: The story of “The superintendent”  is not about sexual orientation at all, but about two women rediscovering parts of themselves again and sort of helping each-other. In a way it is about unlikely friendships. Sworn virgins are men for all intents and purposes. They are the way highland society deals with an unusual situation. Being called a man is a compliment. “This woman is shouldering such a hard responsibility, she is now a man, part of an exclusive club. She enjoys all male freedom as long as she keeps within the man frame and smothers her female side.”

A woman with a different sexual orientation who chooses to emulate men, or even change gender is at the other end of the spectrum. She has understood and accepted herself, and she is true to what she perceives to be her nature. She might look, dress and act the same as a sworn virgin, but for completely different purposes.

What is the social context behind “Burrneshat”. What drives the choice of a woman to become man? What are the causes for this phenomenon? What are some of the social pressures if any for women to become men?

Roland Uruçi:  My own perception of the root cause is the struggle of the Balkans through out history combined with a male dominant culture.  Wars, blood feuds and the like had the Balkans with men sometimes not reaching their 30s.  To keep that social norm going women needed to step into the perceived man’s role and this was what came out of that.

Blerta Alikaj: Most women are selfless, compassionate and caring, so if becoming a man is the only way to keep the family together, clothed, fed and alive, they do it. In the highlands, becoming a man was the only way to keep property in the family of women, escape an undesired marriage, or pursue a blood feud. Modern life is not much different. Any woman who rushes off to work in pants, square shoes and sans eyeliner every morning, feels the pressure.

Are there traces of Sworn Virgins today? Is it still practiced today and where?

Roland Uruçi: From what I understand there are still some in Northern Albanian populated areas including areas in Macedonia, Montenegro and Kosova.

How do you view the role of gender in Albanian society and how has the gender role shifted over the years? In what areas have you seen improvement? 

Roland Uruçi: I think gender roles have changed with more contact with other cultures. I know growing up there was a great deal of respect for women and that their opinions mattered.  Older women were sought out for their help in resolving issues within families.  There was pride in working together in making a family which meant both husband and wife worked hard together.  How this changed I think happened with a false sense of modernization where ideas of independence seem to be forgotten.  Can we have a Shota Galica today? I am not sure we could allow that even thinking that the role of women has improved.

Blerta Alikaj: It is a well-known fact that women have gained a lot of ground. There are prominent women in all fields of life, and many are able to bring food to the table and get recognized for that fact alone.

 

 

What does the concept of “Burrnesha” say about the gender role, rights and social equality?

Roland Uruçi:  There will always be struggles for equality between genders, sexual orientation, religion and class structure.  People are social creatures that tend to divide by nature.  I do feel that the concept of a Burrnesh allows for people to see things from a different point of view.  That someone can be seen as they wish to be seen without a negative connotation associated to that specific choice.

Blerta Alikaj: To me “The Superintendent” is a story of unlikely friendships and of self-discovery.

What is the status quo in Albanian society about Burrneshat? How is this concept of Sworn Virgins accepted in the Albanian culture, by the society and men?

Roland Uruçi: Again from my understanding they are accepted as equals to men.  They work jobs that are preferred by men and there is no real doubt of their ability to perform as their chosen gender.  Is that 100 percent… I feel that with a world culture gaining ground in Albanian culture this will change.

 

 

After the screening of “The Superintendant” what feedback did you receive from the American public? What interesting conversation came up regarding this topic?

Roland Uruçi:  When people saw our short film there were a sense awe in something so different.  It is a thinking persons film.  It brings a different point of view to gender that people have not thought about before.  One of the best compliments I received was that I respected the character in the story and the concept of the story itself.

How is this notion of Sworn Virgins understood in United States? How does it fit in with the social context, cultural context and the psychology of self/identity?

Roland Uruçi: It is not understood clearly with there still being an idea that it is really a choice of sexual orientation rather than a choice or perception and how one fits into a society.  It is a mental transformation that does not require a physical change.  I think here in the US it would be accepted more but, even here people find it more exotic than anything else.

What are some of the assumptions people make in United States about Sworn Virgins. How do those perceptions change after they see the movie “The Superintendent”?

Roland Uruçi: Here there is the concept of gender as always chained to sexuality and in Albanian culture gender is more connected to social standing.  It is is something that makes people think more than just accept.   That is what films and art should do for people.  It all should make people think and reevaluate what perception is as we as a world evolve into a global culture.

What’s next for you?

Roland Uruçi: Currently I am trying to get a feature film into production.  The film is based on the real experiences of my friend, Julian Biba, in Greece in the 1990’s.  This was during the Albanian Civil war and economic breakdown.  His desire to find a better life in Greece was met by a harsh experience that no one should have to live through and some did not.   The title is Paftuar (uninvited) and we hope to shoot in Albania in the next year.

While I am working on getting  Paftuar on its feet I am shooting another Albanian themed short that I plan to shoot in the next couple of months.  I do not want to talk about the subject matter but, I will say that it is very topical with its subject matter. (www.rolanduruci.com)

Blerta Alikaj: Currently collaborating on the Albanian-American Success Stories project, an excellent private opportunity to present ourselves in a good light. Occassionally, you will also find a few of my works at www.bletebzz.wordpress.com.

Caption: Qamile Stema, Sworn Virgin, Photo by Johan Spanner

 

Filed Under: Kulture Tagged With: an Albanian Social, construct, Ermira Babamusta, Eva Alikaj, Roland Uruci, Sworn virgins

Filmi “The Superintendent” përzgjidhet tek Festivali Ndërkombëtar i Filmit, Tiranë

October 25, 2013 by dgreca

Nga: Ermira Babamusta/

New York – Filmi i regjizorit të talentuar Roland Uruçi me titull “The Superintendent” do shfaqet në Festivalin Ndërkombëtar të Filmit në Tiranë te premten, me datë 25 tetor 2013. Filmi me metrazh të shkurtër, me skenar dhe regji të Roland Uruçit ka tre protagonistë kryesorë: Kate Mason, Brooke Volkert dhe John Noel. Kinematografi i filmit është Albert Elmazovski me producent asistent të xhirimit, Kastriot Uruçi.

“Ta kem filmin tim të parë si përzgjedhje e Festivalit të Filmit në Tiranë është si të marr aprovim nga familja ime shqiptare. Ndjehem tepër i gëzuar që filmi im gjeti vatrën e vet,” u shpreh regjizori dhe skenaristi i njohur Roland Uruçi.

Xhiruar në New York, Amerikë filmi bazohet në një histori të shkurtër shkruar nga Blerta Alikaj. Produksioni u mbarua në 2013-të dhe filmi zgjat 18 minuta.

Filmi i referohet një teme shumë interesante të kulturës shqiptare, burrneshat dhe rrëfen historinë se si një burrneshë, Shota, imigron në Amerikë dhe bëhet manaxhere roje pallati. Të gjithë mendojnë se Shota (luajtur bukur nga Brooke Volkert) është burrë sepse ka karakteristika mashkullore.

Filmi nxjerr në pah një histori shumë emocionuese dhe të fuqishme dhe tregon se çfarë ndodh kur e vërteta del në pah dhe pasojat që le pas. Shpeshherë në jetë ndodh që njerëzit kanë sypozimet e tyre për dikë, pa ditur sakrificat, sfidat dhe të vërtetën që kalon ai person. Shota detyrohet t’i rrëfejë sekretin e saj një të huaji dhe historia ndërthur shumë bukur konfliktet socio-kulturore dhe ato gjinore të shoqërisë.

Ky fenomen akoma praktikohet sot në Shqipërinë veriore, Kosovë, Montenegro dhe Bosnje, një traditë e vjetër lindur para 300 vitesh, përmendur që me Kanunin e Lekë Dukagjinit. Ndërkohë kur vashat e reja ëndërrojnë të martohen, ndër shekuj burrneshat betohen për virgjëri para krerëve të fshatit për t’u bërë burrë për të dalë në luftë ose për të përballuar detyrat e familjes. Ky koncept kulturor është mjaft i huaj për kulturën amerikane dhe ndryshon nga termi “orientimi seksual” siç përdoret më shumë në Sh.B.A.

“Burrneshat kanë karakteristika shumë të veçanta dhe të papara për vendet e tjera të botës. Për shqiptarët ka të bëjë me identitetin dhe perceptimin e karakterit të fortë, vjen nga një kulturë e lashtë që pranohet si traditë nga shoqëria shqiptare. Ky koncept është i huaj për kulturën amerikane dhe bie në konflikt me pranimin e orientimit dhe identitetit. Kur u shfaq filmi në New York ka patur shumë komente pozitive dhe filmi u pëlqye shumë sepse është një film tepër unik,” tha regjizori i filmit ‘The Superintendent’, Roland Uruçi.

Regjizori Uruçi ndjehet krenar me projektin e tij të parë, që nxorri në pah një histori majft të veçantë për publikun amerikan dhe atë të huaj, duke i nxitur të mendojnë rreth temave të identitetit, kulturës dhe rolit gjinor në familje.

“Ishte një eksperiencë shumë e mirë në krijimin e një historie duke i shtuar aspekte të kulturës time shqiptare dhe duke e bërë të pranueshme për publikun amerikan. Falenderoj Blerta Alikën që më besoi mua me historinë që ajo shkruajti për ta zhvilluar në film, si dheAlbert Elmazovski (kinematograf i filmit The Superintendent, nga Dibra me origjinë) që e solli vizionin tim në kamera për të krijuar një histori reale dhe të bukur,” shtoi regjizori Roland Uruçi.

Trailer i filmit mund të shikohet këtu: http://vimeo.com/51704867. Momentalisht regjizori Roland Uruçi po merret me projektin e tij të ri “Paftuar” bazuar në ngjarje të vërteta përjetuar nga Julian Biba. Z. Uruçi shpreson ta xhirojë filmin ‘Paftura’ në Shqipëri në 2014 me aktorë shqiptarë. Për më shumë vizitoni www.rolanduruci.com.

 

Filed Under: Kulture Tagged With: Ermira bamausta, perzgjidhet, Roland Uruci, tek Festivali dnerkombetar, The Superintendent, Tirane

Director Roland Uruci on his new film Paftuar / Uninvited

October 23, 2013 by dgreca

For director, producer, screenwriter Roland Uruci storytelling is crucial when making his films. His latest film “Paftuar” (Uninvited) is based on actual events as experienced by Julian Biba. Director Uruci aims to remain true to the genuine history of the events and portray the characters true to the story. “I really love story telling. I enjoy making a world that lives in itself. I want people to be moved from my stories and by that I mean think about what they are seeing. The story in Paftuar was something that just spoke to the humanity in me.  On a personal note I also wanted to shoot something in Albania that would make a world impact,” stated director Roland Uruci. 

Inspired by true events the short drama digs into the prejudice and hardship that faced Albanian immigrants in the early 1990s. The real-life plotline written by Roland Uruci and Julian Biba tells tragic tales and dark memories of immigrant families.

 “Paftuar is based on the real life ordeal a friend of mine lived through.  In the 1990’s with Albania in turmoil my friend Julian Biba, decide to take a shot in Greece for a new life.  Soon after he crossed the border he was captured and sent to a detention center where he was tortured and nearly killed.  When he told me of what had happened I was in shock and felt a pit of my stomach not only for him but, also for the men he told me did not make it out,” added director Roland Uruci. 

The director recently finished shooting a trailer demo for Paftuar/Uninvited (http://vimeo.com/74959373).  The film stars Luan Bexheti, Gent Basha and, Savina Alimani.

Roland Uruci hopes to shoot Paftuar in 2014 in Albania and have an entire Albanian cast and crew. He is currently preparing for fundraising to make this project possible.  Please visit his facebook page for Paftuar for further information and updates (https://www.facebook.com/Paftuar). ( E Bbamusta)

 

Filed Under: Kulture Tagged With: Director, on his new film, Paftuar, Roland Uruci

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